<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Abhi</title><description>Essays on experience, ideas, people, and growth.</description><link>https://abhi.nyc/</link><language>en-us</language><item><title>Moment of clarity</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/moment-of-clarity/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/moment-of-clarity/</guid><description>A moment of clarity is one where you see reality for what it is, not what you’d like it to be.</description><pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Embracing your otherness</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/otherness/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/otherness/</guid><description>Do you ever feel like you don’t fit in?</description><pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Recreating your world</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/recreating-your-world/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/recreating-your-world/</guid><description>In the past two years, I’ve lived in 4 different cities: New Brunswick, Seattle, New York City, and San Francisco.</description><pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Turning twenty-three</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/twenty-three/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/twenty-three/</guid><description>Last year, I wrote a post ‘Turning Twenty Two’ to document my state of mind. Thought I’d continue the tradition as I recently turned twenty three.</description><pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>A review of Learn UI Design</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/learnui-design/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/learnui-design/</guid><description>Before we get into the review of the course, a quick story.</description><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Making</category><category>People</category><category>Recommendation</category></item><item><title>Superpowers</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/superpowers/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/superpowers/</guid><description>It’s odd how the things we often take for granted are our greatest superpowers: reading, writing, self expression, and thinking freely.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Gratitude</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Learning about your motivations</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/learning-about-your-motivations/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/learning-about-your-motivations/</guid><description>What motivates you?</description><pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>The narrative trap</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/the-narrative-trap/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/the-narrative-trap/</guid><description>When something bad happens, what’s your response?</description><pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Learning to rest</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/learning-to-rest/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/learning-to-rest/</guid><description>What puts you at ease?</description><pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Consumption habits</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/consumption-habits/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/consumption-habits/</guid><description>I’ve found that I consume more information when I’m not obsessed about something.</description><pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Learning in silence</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/learning-in-silence/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/learning-in-silence/</guid><description>I don’t like to learn when others are watching me.</description><pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category><category>School</category></item><item><title>Living in fear</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/living-in-fear/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/living-in-fear/</guid><description>Imagine going to a new country where you don’t know anyone, have no money, don’t understand the language, and have a different color than everyone around you.</description><pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Practicing humanity</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/practicing-humanity/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/practicing-humanity/</guid><description>I was listening to a press conference by Andrew Cuomo about NY state’s response to the novel corona virus today.</description><pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>The illusion: “plenty of time”</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/plenty-of-time/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/plenty-of-time/</guid><description>For most of my time in school, I learned things teachers told me to.</description><pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>People</category><category>School</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>Change your world</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/change-your-world/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/change-your-world/</guid><description>Notice I didn’t title this post, change the world.</description><pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Life’s about learning lessons we don’t think are True</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/learning-lessons/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/learning-lessons/</guid><description>Today, I listened to This is Water, a graduation speech given by David Foster Wallace.</description><pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category></item><item><title>nCoVID-19</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/corona-virus/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/corona-virus/</guid><description>As of March 16th, 2020, it feels like the world is falling apart.</description><pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Current events</category><category>Experience</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>How to converse with others</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/how-to-converse-with-others/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/how-to-converse-with-others/</guid><description>Want to be a better conversationalist?</description><pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Recommendation</category></item><item><title>The switch</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/the-switch/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/the-switch/</guid><description>As you age, you gradually go from not knowing how anything works to slowly building a sense of what’s going on.</description><pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Mindset &amp; action—a feedback loop</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/mindset-action/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/mindset-action/</guid><description>When are you more likely to go to the gym?</description><pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Spark joy</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/spark-joy/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/spark-joy/</guid><description>To me, joy is the feeling I get when I experience something pleasant that’s also unexpected. Usually an act of thoughtfulness exhibited by another person, creature, or company.</description><pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Recommendation</category></item><item><title>Fail early, fail often</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/fail-early-fail-often/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/fail-early-fail-often/</guid><description>The likelihood you’ll ‘make it’ increases with every attempt.</description><pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category><category>Recommendation</category></item><item><title>Simplify everything</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/simplify-everything/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/simplify-everything/</guid><description>While speaking to a friend yesterday, I was reminded of a lesson that I somehow forgot as I learn more.</description><pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Reading your mind and body</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/reading-your-mind-and-body/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/reading-your-mind-and-body/</guid><description>Recently, I’ve started to become hyper-aware of how my body reacts to the inputs it receives from an environment.</description><pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category></item><item><title>No one cares</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/no-one-cares/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/no-one-cares/</guid><description>When you realize no one cares, you’re free to do what you want.</description><pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Recommendation</category></item><item><title>Making money</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/making-money/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/making-money/</guid><description>Someone once asked Buffet, when did you know you were going to be rich?</description><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Making</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Read</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/read/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/read/</guid><description>A common piece of advice from the wealthy people I’ve met: READ.</description><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category><category>Recommendation</category><category>School</category></item><item><title>Space to grow</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/space-to-grow/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/space-to-grow/</guid><description>When’s the last time you made space to grow?</description><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category><category>Recommendation</category></item><item><title>Managing yourself and your emotions</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/managing-yourself-and-emotions/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/managing-yourself-and-emotions/</guid><description>Managing oneself is a skill that’s rarely taught.</description><pubDate>Tue, 25 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Growth</category><category>Personal</category><category>Recommendation</category><category>School</category><category>Work</category></item><item><title>Prioritize close relationships</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/prioritize-close-relationships/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/prioritize-close-relationships/</guid><description>The people closest to us are the most likely to be neglected unless we make a conscious effort to prioritize them in our lives.</description><pubDate>Sun, 23 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Move out of your digital screen</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/move-out-of-your-digital-screen/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/move-out-of-your-digital-screen/</guid><description>From the minute you wake up to your last conscious breath before sleep, you’re expected to communicate with the people around you.</description><pubDate>Fri, 21 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>How to be emotionally responsive</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/how-to-be-emotionally-responsive/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/how-to-be-emotionally-responsive/</guid><description>Being emotionally responsive to those in need has never come naturally to me. At first, I didn’t even know that I needed to behave a certain way to make someone feel secure in…</description><pubDate>Tue, 18 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category><category>Recommendation</category></item><item><title>Defaults matter</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/defaults-matter/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/defaults-matter/</guid><description>Most people live on auto-pilot.</description><pubDate>Sun, 16 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Product</category><category>Recommendation</category></item><item><title>Flow state</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/flow-state/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/flow-state/</guid><description>Many people like to talk about flow states. It’s when a person seemingly forgets everything around them to zone in on a task.</description><pubDate>Fri, 14 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Awareness</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/awareness/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/awareness/</guid><description>Don’t take the things around you for granted.</description><pubDate>Thu, 13 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Recommendation</category></item><item><title>Reading textbooks</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/reading-textbooks/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/reading-textbooks/</guid><description>When was the last time you read a textbook for fun?</description><pubDate>Tue, 11 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Personal</category><category>School</category></item><item><title>If-then</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/if-then/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/if-then/</guid><description>Your decisions today impact the person you become tomorrow.</description><pubDate>Sun, 09 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>I moved to San Francisco</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/moved-to-sf/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/moved-to-sf/</guid><description>I know I haven’t written in some time so let’s start with a recap.</description><pubDate>Sun, 09 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Newsletter</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Self-learning</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/self-learning/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/self-learning/</guid><description>Learning how to learn is powerful, yet rarely taught.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category><category>School</category></item><item><title>Taste limits</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/taste-limits/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/taste-limits/</guid><description>If you ask someone who’s only ever eaten apples:</description><pubDate>Tue, 04 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Energy management</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/energy-management/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/energy-management/</guid><description>It’s 4 PM on a Thursday, you’re exhausted from a full day of back to back meetings but you can’t avoid a call at 4:15 PM. How do you muster the energy to provide your undivided…</description><pubDate>Mon, 03 Feb 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Back to the basics</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/back-to-the-basics/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/back-to-the-basics/</guid><description>As adults, we tend to overcomplicate things.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jan 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Recommendation</category><category>School</category></item><item><title>Digital junkies</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/digital-junkies/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/digital-junkies/</guid><description>While walking down the street, how many people do you notice are on their phones? What are they doing? What are they listening to?</description><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Product</category></item><item><title>Losing ambition</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/losing-ambition/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/losing-ambition/</guid><description>Have you ever noticed someone lose ambition?</description><pubDate>Mon, 27 Jan 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>School</category></item><item><title>Don’t forget</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/dont-forget/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/dont-forget/</guid><description>What did you do last week? last month? last year?</description><pubDate>Sun, 26 Jan 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category></item><item><title>Create value</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/create-value/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/create-value/</guid><description>A lesson I wish I had learned sooner: learn to create value.</description><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jan 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category><category>Recommendation</category><category>School</category></item><item><title>Selective memory</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/selective-memory/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/selective-memory/</guid><description>Our memories can be deceiving.</description><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jan 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>On writing every day</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/on-writing-every-day/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/on-writing-every-day/</guid><description>About 2 months ago, I decided to start writing every day.</description><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jan 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Product Design</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/product-design/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/product-design/</guid><description>Everything we use was designed by someone.</description><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jan 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Product</category></item><item><title>First day of school</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/first-day-of-school/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/first-day-of-school/</guid><description>Do you remember the night before the first day of school?</description><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jan 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Personal</category><category>School</category></item><item><title>Feedback loops</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/feedback-loops/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/feedback-loops/</guid><description>When making a decision aim to understand the metric and consequence you’re optimizing for. Design an experiment to see whether you’re moving closer to or farther away from the…</description><pubDate>Fri, 03 Jan 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Making</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>Limiting beliefs</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/limiting-beliefs/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/limiting-beliefs/</guid><description>Here’s a sample of some of the limiting beliefs I’ve worked through…</description><pubDate>Fri, 03 Jan 2020 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Failure vs. experimentation</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/failure/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/failure/</guid><description>There’s a blurry line between experimentation and failure.</description><pubDate>Tue, 31 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category></item><item><title>Your surroundings matter</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/surroundings/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/surroundings/</guid><description>I’ve always found setting up an environment to succeed is much better than relying on willpower.</description><pubDate>Tue, 31 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Don’t blame the system</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/dont-blame-the-system/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/dont-blame-the-system/</guid><description>When I was younger, I’d often blame “the system” instead of myself.</description><pubDate>Sun, 29 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Determined to win</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/determined-to-win/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/determined-to-win/</guid><description>I watched the documentary Le Ride today.</description><pubDate>Fri, 27 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>People</category><category>Recommendation</category></item><item><title>First podcast appearance</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/first-podcast-appearance/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/first-podcast-appearance/</guid><description>Two weeks ago, I was asked to appear as a guest on a podcast.</description><pubDate>Fri, 27 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Personal</category><category>Recommendation</category></item><item><title>Unstructured learning</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/unstructured-learning/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/unstructured-learning/</guid><description>I’ve found learning to be effortless when I follow my curiosity.</description><pubDate>Thu, 26 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Airport pickup</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/airport-pickup/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/airport-pickup/</guid><description>Nothing compares to the feeling of picking up a friend or family member after a long plane ride at the airport.</description><pubDate>Wed, 25 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>People</category></item><item><title>Podcasts</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/podcasts/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/podcasts/</guid><description>Ever since I discovered podcasts, I’ve been hooked.</description><pubDate>Tue, 24 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Personal</category><category>Product</category><category>Recommendation</category></item><item><title>Consuming content</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/consuming-content/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/consuming-content/</guid><description>Growing up I never understood pop-culture.</description><pubDate>Mon, 23 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Chasing dreams</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/chasing-dreams/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/chasing-dreams/</guid><description>Chasing dreams is a privilege that most people, including myself, take for granted.</description><pubDate>Sun, 22 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Hard choices, easy life…</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/hard-choices/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/hard-choices/</guid><description>In any given situation we have two options:</description><pubDate>Sun, 22 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Incentive bias</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/incentive-bias/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/incentive-bias/</guid><description>Any time we consume information, whether we know it or not, we’re being influenced. It’s especially dangerous when we’re least suspecting.</description><pubDate>Sun, 22 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category></item><item><title>Under the hood</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/under-the-hood/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/under-the-hood/</guid><description>Observing and recreating systems is fun.</description><pubDate>Thu, 19 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Getting started</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/getting-started/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/getting-started/</guid><description>Taking the first step is the hardest part of doing something.</description><pubDate>Tue, 17 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category></item><item><title>Optimism is a skill</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/optimism-is-a-skill/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/optimism-is-a-skill/</guid><description>I’ve never thought of optimism as a skill until I listened to a podcast featuring Tim Ferriss and Phil Keoghan.</description><pubDate>Tue, 17 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Personal</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>Guided wandering</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/guided-wandering/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/guided-wandering/</guid><description>In the 2018 Amazon letter to shareholders, Jeff Bezos talks about the power of wandering:</description><pubDate>Mon, 16 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>Talking to anyone</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/talking-to-anyone/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/talking-to-anyone/</guid><description>There’s a common saying that “one can learn something from everyone.” I didn’t truly understand it until recently.</description><pubDate>Sat, 14 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>There’s nothing like it</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/theres-nothing-like-it/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/theres-nothing-like-it/</guid><description>I live for the moments when I discover something and say, “there’s nothing like it.” This feeling is evoked when an unmet need is fulfilled.</description><pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category></item><item><title>Critical thinking in the real world</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/critical-thinking/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/critical-thinking/</guid><description>While sitting in my 4th-grade math class, I never understood why there was a distinction between “real world” math problems and the rest.</description><pubDate>Wed, 11 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Ideas</category><category>School</category></item><item><title>Unlearning social norms</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/unlearning-social-norms/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/unlearning-social-norms/</guid><description>Unlearning social norms early in life is dangerous.</description><pubDate>Wed, 11 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category><category>School</category></item><item><title>Seeing the present first</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/seeing-the-present-first/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/seeing-the-present-first/</guid><description>I recently heard a quote that I haven’t been able to stop thinking about since, “I don’t want to predict the future, I’d just like to understand the present first.” I believe…</description><pubDate>Tue, 10 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Ideas</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>Marketing vs reality</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/marketing-vs-reality/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/marketing-vs-reality/</guid><description>Most commercials are inaccurate representations of products or experiences.</description><pubDate>Mon, 09 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>Making</category></item><item><title>False proxies</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/false-proxies/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/false-proxies/</guid><description>Young people are often told they have time to figure out what they want in life. Though, no one tells them about the consequences.</description><pubDate>Sat, 07 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Falling down</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/falling-down/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/falling-down/</guid><description>The highs and lows of building a company are real.</description><pubDate>Fri, 06 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>Storytelling</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/storytelling/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/storytelling/</guid><description>What does pitching a business have in common with telling a joke?</description><pubDate>Thu, 05 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>Shiny objects</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/shiny-objects/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/shiny-objects/</guid><description>Most time spent in the creative process is actually spent in the discovery phase.</description><pubDate>Tue, 03 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Ideas</category><category>Making</category><category>People</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>The cost of growth</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/the-cost-of-growth/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/the-cost-of-growth/</guid><description>Do you recognize yourself from a year ago?</description><pubDate>Mon, 02 Dec 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Growth</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>Imperfect thoughts</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/imperfect-thoughts/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/imperfect-thoughts/</guid><description>In the earliest stages of articulating a thought it’s fragile. We add additional thoughts before and after to convey a point. Based on the feedback we get from a reader or…</description><pubDate>Sat, 30 Nov 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Ideas</category><category>Personal</category></item><item><title>When influencers become teachers</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/when-influencers-become-teachers/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/when-influencers-become-teachers/</guid><description>I recently heard something that I can’t stop thinking about, “I don’t attempt to predict the future. I’m just trying to understand the present first.”</description><pubDate>Sat, 30 Nov 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Product</category><category>School</category></item><item><title>Technological breakthroughs</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/technological-breakthroughs/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/technological-breakthroughs/</guid><description>My family immigrated to the US when I was about 2 or 3 years old.</description><pubDate>Thu, 28 Nov 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Growth</category><category>Ideas</category></item><item><title>The founder skill</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/the-founder-skill/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/the-founder-skill/</guid><description>Your world view is shaped by the experiences you’ve had, things you’ve learned, and people you’ve surrounded yourself with.</description><pubDate>Thu, 28 Nov 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Ideas</category><category>People</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>Boundless creativity</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/boundless-creativity/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/boundless-creativity/</guid><description>Making things is hard.</description><pubDate>Wed, 27 Nov 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Ideas</category><category>Making</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>The experience of you</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/the-experience-of-you/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/the-experience-of-you/</guid><description>Whether we realize it or not every interaction we have is an experience for us and the other person involved.</description><pubDate>Mon, 25 Nov 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>People</category></item><item><title>Making the future</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/making-the-future/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/making-the-future/</guid><description>Gandhi once said, “be the change you wish to see in the world.”</description><pubDate>Sat, 23 Nov 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Ideas</category><category>Making</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>Why I’m here</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/why-im-here/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/why-im-here/</guid><description>One thing people who know me will tell you is how curious I am.</description><pubDate>Sat, 23 Nov 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Personal</category><category>School</category><category>Work</category></item><item><title>Experience mining</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/experience-mining/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/experience-mining/</guid><description>In the earliest phases of starting a company, first-time founders are often told to meet with 100 people before raising money.</description><pubDate>Thu, 21 Nov 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>BRB chat</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/brb-chat/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/brb-chat/</guid><description>When was the last time you were delighted when using a product or service someone else created?</description><pubDate>Tue, 19 Nov 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Experience</category><category>Product</category></item><item><title>Constructive feedback</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/constructive-feedback/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/constructive-feedback/</guid><description>When you pitch a new idea to someone, often, their first instinct is to tell you all the reasons that it won’t work.</description><pubDate>Tue, 19 Nov 2019 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Growth</category><category>People</category><category>Startups</category></item><item><title>The backend of society</title><link>https://abhi.nyc/the-backend-of-society/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://abhi.nyc/the-backend-of-society/</guid><description>Software engineers are often referred to as frontend or backend specialists. 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I vividly remember myself sitting in a subway pitching ZenAdvisor to someone. 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